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Love Quote by Alphonsus Liguori

"God is displeased at the diffidence of souls who love Him sincerely and whom He Himself loves"

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Liguori turns a familiar spiritual reflex on its head: the timid believer who hangs back out of “humility” may not be humble at all, but subtly resistant to love. “Diffidence” here isn’t healthy self-knowledge; it’s the anxious habit of treating God’s mercy as a fragile rumor, always about to be revoked. By saying God is “displeased,” Liguori gives the line its bite. He refuses to let insecurity masquerade as virtue. If God “Himself loves” these souls, then their reluctance to trust becomes, in effect, a quiet accusation: that God’s affection is unreliable, or conditional, or meant for someone else.

The rhetoric is tight and pastoral. Liguori addresses people who “love Him sincerely” - not cynics, not rebels, but the scrupulous and tender-conscienced. In Catholic devotional culture of his era, especially amid intense moral rigor and the lingering shadow of Jansenist severity, many believers were haunted by fear of unworthiness, particularly around confession and communion. Liguori’s project was to reroute that fear into confidence without dissolving moral seriousness. God’s “displeasure” functions like a corrective shock: stop treating your low self-estimate as the final authority.

The subtext is relational. If love is real, it expects a response. To refuse trust is to refuse intimacy. Liguori’s God isn’t an abstract judge tallying errors; He’s a lover affronted by being kept at arm’s length by those already welcomed. The intent is spiritual triage: to heal the pious person’s addiction to doubt by reframing trust as obedience.

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Liguori, Alphonsus. (n.d.). God is displeased at the diffidence of souls who love Him sincerely and whom He Himself loves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-is-displeased-at-the-diffidence-of-souls-who-41822/

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Liguori, Alphonsus. "God is displeased at the diffidence of souls who love Him sincerely and whom He Himself loves." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-is-displeased-at-the-diffidence-of-souls-who-41822/.

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"God is displeased at the diffidence of souls who love Him sincerely and whom He Himself loves." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-is-displeased-at-the-diffidence-of-souls-who-41822/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Alphonsus Liguori (September 27, 1696 - August 1, 1787) was a Clergyman from Italy.

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