"God, life changes faster than you think"
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Tan’s fiction is obsessed with what happens when families and identities are treated as fixed, only to be rewritten by migration, illness, war, marriage, betrayal, aging. The subtext here is generational: parents and children often live in different temporalities. One person believes there will be time to explain, forgive, translate. Another knows that history - personal or political - doesn’t wait for emotional readiness. In Tan’s world, a secret can sit quietly for decades, then detonate in a single phone call.
The quote also carries a novelist’s craft lesson: character arcs aren’t built out of gradual enlightenment; they’re built out of shocks. “Life changes” is passive voice, and that matters. Change arrives as something done to you, not chosen by you, echoing Tan’s recurring tension between agency and inheritance. The line isn’t inspirational; it’s a warning wrapped in a prayer: pay attention now, because the chance to understand someone can disappear before you’ve even decided to try.
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Tan, Amy. "God, life changes faster than you think." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-life-changes-faster-than-you-think-37464/.
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"God, life changes faster than you think." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-life-changes-faster-than-you-think-37464/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










