"God, my parents, my wife. I don't have a lot of friends, because I'm always moving around. I don't drink, so I don't hang out in bars. But they've been very big in my life. Because they have helped to encourage me"
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The mention of not drinking does double duty. On the surface, it’s a lifestyle detail. Culturally, it’s a character claim: discipline, separateness, a refusal of the social rituals where male camaraderie often gets built and maintained. “I don’t hang out in bars” signals more than sobriety; it marks distance from the default settings of friendship. The subtext is loneliness made respectable, translated into virtue.
What makes the quote work is its careful substitution. Walker doesn’t romanticize solitude; he offsets it with a tight circle of authority and support. God provides moral structure, parents supply roots, a wife offers present-tense steadiness. “They’ve been very big in my life” is plainspoken, but strategic: it redefines “support system” away from peers and toward family and faith, two institutions that travel with you when your zip code doesn’t.
The final note - “they have helped to encourage me” - is almost modest, but it’s the tell. Encouragement here isn’t cheerleading; it’s survival infrastructure. In a profession that rewards self-sufficiency while manufacturing isolation, he’s explaining how he stays upright without pretending he does it alone.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Walker, Herschel. (2026, January 17). God, my parents, my wife. I don't have a lot of friends, because I'm always moving around. I don't drink, so I don't hang out in bars. But they've been very big in my life. Because they have helped to encourage me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-my-parents-my-wife-i-dont-have-a-lot-of-61766/
Chicago Style
Walker, Herschel. "God, my parents, my wife. I don't have a lot of friends, because I'm always moving around. I don't drink, so I don't hang out in bars. But they've been very big in my life. Because they have helped to encourage me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-my-parents-my-wife-i-dont-have-a-lot-of-61766/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"God, my parents, my wife. I don't have a lot of friends, because I'm always moving around. I don't drink, so I don't hang out in bars. But they've been very big in my life. Because they have helped to encourage me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-my-parents-my-wife-i-dont-have-a-lot-of-61766/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








