"God's forgiveness is the only thing. And, well, I take full responsibility for the adultery. It was my fault and, you know, no matter what went on, the man has to take responsibility; and I do"
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Then comes the carefully staged “full responsibility,” delivered in the language of masculine duty: “the man has to take responsibility.” It sounds blunt, but it’s also a subtle power move. By claiming responsibility, he positions himself as still the kind of man who leads, confesses, and restores order. The repeated hedges - “And, well,” “you know,” “no matter what went on” - betray the PR mechanics underneath. “No matter what went on” is a particularly telling clause: it suggests a surrounding narrative he won’t name (temptation, entrapment, marital strain, ministry pressures), while insisting those details shouldn’t be litigated. He offers a preemptive closure.
In the televangelist-era scandal economy, this is repentance as damage control: spiritual language that invites compassion, a gendered script that stabilizes hierarchy, and just enough self-blame to look sincere while keeping the real accounting safely out of frame.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bakker, Jim. (2026, January 15). God's forgiveness is the only thing. And, well, I take full responsibility for the adultery. It was my fault and, you know, no matter what went on, the man has to take responsibility; and I do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gods-forgiveness-is-the-only-thing-and-well-i-158625/
Chicago Style
Bakker, Jim. "God's forgiveness is the only thing. And, well, I take full responsibility for the adultery. It was my fault and, you know, no matter what went on, the man has to take responsibility; and I do." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gods-forgiveness-is-the-only-thing-and-well-i-158625/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"God's forgiveness is the only thing. And, well, I take full responsibility for the adultery. It was my fault and, you know, no matter what went on, the man has to take responsibility; and I do." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gods-forgiveness-is-the-only-thing-and-well-i-158625/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








