"Good humor isn't a trait of character, it is an art which requires practice"
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The subtext is democratic and mildly chastening. If good humor is practice, then it is available to more people than the lucky few with sunny wiring, but it also becomes your responsibility. You cannot outsource it to personality, or excuse chronic irritability as authenticity. The word "practice" matters: it suggests failure, daily recommitment, and the kind of discipline we admire in musicians and athletes, not in the self-appointed "realists" who confuse cynicism with insight.
Seabury's context helps explain the edge. As a psychologist working through the early 20th century, he sits in a period fascinated by self-mastery: habit formation, adjustment, and the idea that mental health can be trained, not merely treated. Read that way, "good humor" isn't just being funny; it's an emotional stance under pressure, a social skill that lubricates family life, offices, and public spaces. Seabury frames it as craft because he knows moods are contagious - and because craft implies choice.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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| Source | Verified source: The Art of Selfishness (David Seabury, 1937)
Evidence: Good humor isn’t a trait of character, however. It is an art, which requires practice. (Chapter: "Know Your Own Mind" (p. 53 in the 1972/1973 Cornerstone Library reprint; original 1937 page may differ)). This wording appears in David Seabury’s own text in *The Art of Selfishness* in the section labeled "Know Your Own Mind" with the internal page marker "53" visible in the online scan. The scan also states the work was "first published in 1937" and includes the original copyright notice "Copyright © 1937 by David Seabury" (reprint edition details shown on the same scan). Because pagination can vary by edition/printing, the safest precise locator is the section heading "Know Your Own Mind" plus the page number as displayed in the scanned reprint. Other candidates (1) Good Clean Humor (George C. Debnam, 2008) compilation95.0% ... Good humor isn't a trait of character , it is an art which requires practice . —David Seabury Humor is the other ... |
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