"Good marriages are made in heaven. Or some such place"
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Heaven gets name-checked here only to be gently mugged. Robert Bolt’s line opens with the reassuring, almost Hallmark-grade premise that a “good marriage” is divinely ordained, then undercuts it with the shrugging add-on: “Or some such place.” That little wobble does most of the work. It’s not disbelief exactly; it’s skepticism with manners. Bolt punctures the cultural need to treat marriage as destiny, as if compatibility were a sacred matching service rather than a messy human craft.
The intent is slyly corrective. By invoking “heaven,” he nods to the romantic myth that the right partner is preselected by providence; by immediately walking it back, he exposes how fragile that myth is under real scrutiny. “Some such place” is a comic escape hatch that also functions as a moral one: it lets the speaker admit hope without committing to metaphysics. The joke isn’t just about religion; it’s about the stories we tell to launder effort into fate. If a marriage is “made,” someone is making it. The quip restores agency without becoming preachy.
Bolt, a playwright steeped in moral pressure-cookers (most famously A Man for All Seasons), understood how institutions sanctify private choices. Marriage is one of those institutions. This line reads like stage dialogue built to land quickly, then linger: an audience laughs, then recognizes the discomfort underneath. It’s a wit-soaked reminder that the best relationships may feel miraculous, but they’re rarely miraculous in origin.
The intent is slyly corrective. By invoking “heaven,” he nods to the romantic myth that the right partner is preselected by providence; by immediately walking it back, he exposes how fragile that myth is under real scrutiny. “Some such place” is a comic escape hatch that also functions as a moral one: it lets the speaker admit hope without committing to metaphysics. The joke isn’t just about religion; it’s about the stories we tell to launder effort into fate. If a marriage is “made,” someone is making it. The quip restores agency without becoming preachy.
Bolt, a playwright steeped in moral pressure-cookers (most famously A Man for All Seasons), understood how institutions sanctify private choices. Marriage is one of those institutions. This line reads like stage dialogue built to land quickly, then linger: an audience laughs, then recognizes the discomfort underneath. It’s a wit-soaked reminder that the best relationships may feel miraculous, but they’re rarely miraculous in origin.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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