"Gray hairs are signs of wisdom if you hold your tongue, speak and they are but hairs, as in the young"
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The intent is less about glorifying silence than about exposing how fragile authority is when it leans on appearances. Tagore is writing from a culture saturated with reverence for elders, where age traditionally carries moral weight. His subtext is quietly democratic and quietly ruthless: respect should be earned in real time, not inherited through the calendar. Talk is the audit. Speech reveals whether experience has matured into judgment or calcified into ego.
Notice the craft. The sentence turns on a single hinge word, "if", making wisdom contingent rather than inevitable. The contrast between "signs" and "but hairs" is almost tactile, stripping the metaphor down to keratin. Tagore also smuggles in a critique of performative sagacity: the elder who keeps pronouncing, advising, and asserting may be chasing deference rather than deserving it.
In Tagore's era - colonial Bengal, public debates about reform, nationalism, and education - the line doubles as a warning to leaders and patriarchs: moral authority isn't signaled by age or title. It's signaled by the discipline to listen, to choose words carefully, and to let experience speak through judgment rather than volume.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
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Tagore, Rabindranath. (2026, January 15). Gray hairs are signs of wisdom if you hold your tongue, speak and they are but hairs, as in the young. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gray-hairs-are-signs-of-wisdom-if-you-hold-your-14903/
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Tagore, Rabindranath. "Gray hairs are signs of wisdom if you hold your tongue, speak and they are but hairs, as in the young." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gray-hairs-are-signs-of-wisdom-if-you-hold-your-14903/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Gray hairs are signs of wisdom if you hold your tongue, speak and they are but hairs, as in the young." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gray-hairs-are-signs-of-wisdom-if-you-hold-your-14903/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.







