"Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them"
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“Tiresome” does more work than it seems. It’s not rage or heartbreak; it’s fatigue. The child isn’t romanticized as pure wisdom so much as trapped in a loop where wonder must constantly justify itself to the practical mind. That dynamic flips the usual hierarchy: the child becomes the translator, the adult the dependent. It’s comedy with teeth, because it exposes how power often masquerades as competence. Adults get to set the terms of reality, then ask children to defend their reality within those terms.
In context, The Little Prince is a parable written from within modernity’s wreckage - a pilot-author who lived through war, propaganda, and the hollowing out of language. The book’s repeated gag about adults caring for numbers, titles, and “serious matters” isn’t nostalgia; it’s a critique of a civilization that prizes legibility over truth. The intent isn’t to crown children as superior. It’s to shame the adult reader into remembering that understanding is an active practice, not an age-based entitlement.
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Saint-Exupery, Antoine de. (2026, January 17). Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/grown-ups-never-understand-anything-for-29903/
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Saint-Exupery, Antoine de. "Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/grown-ups-never-understand-anything-for-29903/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/grown-ups-never-understand-anything-for-29903/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.




