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Parenting & Family Quote by Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them"

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Adult certainty is the novel’s quiet villain: not cruelty, not ignorance, but the smug conviction that the world has already been categorized. Saint-Exupery’s line weaponizes a child’s complaint into an indictment of grown-up perception. The sting is in “for themselves” - the idea that adults don’t merely miss meanings; they outsource them. They demand explanations the way bureaucracies demand forms, not to learn, but to domesticate what’s unruly into something manageable.

“Tiresome” does more work than it seems. It’s not rage or heartbreak; it’s fatigue. The child isn’t romanticized as pure wisdom so much as trapped in a loop where wonder must constantly justify itself to the practical mind. That dynamic flips the usual hierarchy: the child becomes the translator, the adult the dependent. It’s comedy with teeth, because it exposes how power often masquerades as competence. Adults get to set the terms of reality, then ask children to defend their reality within those terms.

In context, The Little Prince is a parable written from within modernity’s wreckage - a pilot-author who lived through war, propaganda, and the hollowing out of language. The book’s repeated gag about adults caring for numbers, titles, and “serious matters” isn’t nostalgia; it’s a critique of a civilization that prizes legibility over truth. The intent isn’t to crown children as superior. It’s to shame the adult reader into remembering that understanding is an active practice, not an age-based entitlement.

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Antoine de Saint-Exupery (June 29, 1900 - July 31, 1944) was a Novelist from France.

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