"Guard well within yourself that treasure, kindness. Know how to give without hesitation, how to lose without regret, how to acquire without meanness"
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The sentence then pivots into a three-part ethic built for adult life, not parlor ideals: give, lose, acquire. Sand is writing about economy as much as emotion. “Give without hesitation” isn’t naïveté; it’s decisiveness, a refusal to let calculation poison the impulse to help. “Lose without regret” is the hard one: she’s not romanticizing deprivation, she’s warning against the corrosive aftertaste of resentment - the way keeping score turns generosity into debt collection. And “acquire without meanness” recognizes a truth polite moralists often dodge: you will want things, you will need money, status, love, security. The question isn’t whether you acquire, but what it costs your character while you’re doing it.
Subtext: kindness has to be protected from both cynicism and sanctimony. Sand’s intent is a kind of moral self-possession - to live in a society of transactions without letting your spirit become transactional.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Later attribution: Women Know Everything! (Karen Weekes, 2007) modern compilationISBN: 9781594741692 · ID: nTKgWEBhBeoC
Evidence:
... Guard well within yourself that treasure , kindness . Know how to give without hesitation , how to lose without regret , how to acquire without meanness . -GEORGE SAND ( AMANDINE - AURORE - LUCIE DUPIN , BARONNE DUDEVANT ) ( 1804-1876 ) ... |
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Sand, George. (2026, February 23). Guard well within yourself that treasure, kindness. Know how to give without hesitation, how to lose without regret, how to acquire without meanness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/guard-well-within-yourself-that-treasure-kindness-95655/
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Sand, George. "Guard well within yourself that treasure, kindness. Know how to give without hesitation, how to lose without regret, how to acquire without meanness." FixQuotes. February 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/guard-well-within-yourself-that-treasure-kindness-95655/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Guard well within yourself that treasure, kindness. Know how to give without hesitation, how to lose without regret, how to acquire without meanness." FixQuotes, 23 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/guard-well-within-yourself-that-treasure-kindness-95655/. Accessed 4 Mar. 2026.












