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Success Quote by George Sand

"Guard well within yourself that treasure, kindness. Know how to give without hesitation, how to lose without regret, how to acquire without meanness"

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Kindness, for Sand, isn’t a soft virtue you perform for applause; it’s contraband you hide from a world trained to tax it. “Guard well within yourself that treasure” reads like a survival tip from a woman who made a career out of refusing the roles her century assigned her. In 19th-century France, “kindness” could be demanded of women as obedience, sweetness, self-erasure. Sand flips it: kindness is yours, stored inside, protected from exploitation. The moral is intimate, almost tactical.

The sentence then pivots into a three-part ethic built for adult life, not parlor ideals: give, lose, acquire. Sand is writing about economy as much as emotion. “Give without hesitation” isn’t naïveté; it’s decisiveness, a refusal to let calculation poison the impulse to help. “Lose without regret” is the hard one: she’s not romanticizing deprivation, she’s warning against the corrosive aftertaste of resentment - the way keeping score turns generosity into debt collection. And “acquire without meanness” recognizes a truth polite moralists often dodge: you will want things, you will need money, status, love, security. The question isn’t whether you acquire, but what it costs your character while you’re doing it.

Subtext: kindness has to be protected from both cynicism and sanctimony. Sand’s intent is a kind of moral self-possession - to live in a society of transactions without letting your spirit become transactional.

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George Sand

George Sand (July 1, 1804 - June 8, 1876) was a Novelist from France.

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