"Happiness does not consist in self-love"
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Butler is swinging at a surprisingly modern target: the idea that the self is the most reliable project you can devote your life to. In four plain words, he punctures the comforting equation of self-regard with well-being. Coming from an 18th-century Anglican clergyman, this isn’t pop psychology; it’s a theological and moral argument aimed at a culture where “self-love” could mean vanity, pride, and the inward curl of the ego that shuts out obligation.
The intent is corrective, almost clinical. Butler isn’t condemning self-preservation or basic dignity. He’s rejecting the notion that happiness can be manufactured by obsessively tending to one’s own satisfaction. The subtext is that happiness is an indirect reward, not a direct product. Chase it through the narrow corridor of self-absorption and it slips away; pursue something beyond yourself - duty, benevolence, God, community - and happiness arrives as a byproduct.
What makes the line work is its austerity. No metaphor, no flourish, just a clean negation that forces the reader to supply the alternative. That rhetorical restraint fits Butler’s broader project (most famously in his sermons): arguing that humans aren’t solely driven by selfish appetite and that conscience and compassion are native parts of our psychology, not decorative add-ons.
Context sharpens the bite. In an era negotiating between Christian moral teaching and emerging Enlightenment accounts of “interest” and pleasure, Butler draws a boundary: a life organized around the self is not merely morally suspect, it’s strategically misguided. He offers virtue not as punishment, but as the only credible route to a durable kind of joy.
The intent is corrective, almost clinical. Butler isn’t condemning self-preservation or basic dignity. He’s rejecting the notion that happiness can be manufactured by obsessively tending to one’s own satisfaction. The subtext is that happiness is an indirect reward, not a direct product. Chase it through the narrow corridor of self-absorption and it slips away; pursue something beyond yourself - duty, benevolence, God, community - and happiness arrives as a byproduct.
What makes the line work is its austerity. No metaphor, no flourish, just a clean negation that forces the reader to supply the alternative. That rhetorical restraint fits Butler’s broader project (most famously in his sermons): arguing that humans aren’t solely driven by selfish appetite and that conscience and compassion are native parts of our psychology, not decorative add-ons.
Context sharpens the bite. In an era negotiating between Christian moral teaching and emerging Enlightenment accounts of “interest” and pleasure, Butler draws a boundary: a life organized around the self is not merely morally suspect, it’s strategically misguided. He offers virtue not as punishment, but as the only credible route to a durable kind of joy.
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