"Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens"
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The second half sharpens into satire. “Picked in strangers’ gardens” turns envy into petty theft. Wanting what your neighbor has isn’t framed as aspiration; it’s a kind of trespass, a moral and emotional category error. Gardens are curated, visible, meant to be admired. Firesides are private, messy, sustained. Jerrold knows how easily people confuse the polished exterior of other households with a promise of joy, then feel cheated when it doesn’t transfer.
As a dramatist, he’s writing with an audience’s eye: the metaphor is stage-ready, the contrast visual, the lesson instantly graspable. The subtext is social critique disguised as homespun wisdom. Stop touring other people’s highlight reels. Put another log on your own fire. Happiness, he implies, is less about discovery than maintenance - and the most dangerous illusion is thinking it’s just one gate away.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jerrold, Douglas William. (2026, January 15). Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/happiness-grows-at-our-own-firesides-and-is-not-27731/
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Jerrold, Douglas William. "Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/happiness-grows-at-our-own-firesides-and-is-not-27731/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/happiness-grows-at-our-own-firesides-and-is-not-27731/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










