"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness"
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The subtext is a critique of control. In the Warring States era, when competing schools offered moral programs for social order, Zhuangzi’s Daoism often reads like a refusal to let life be reduced to a project. His broader work is full of characters who flourish precisely when they stop imposing rigid categories and expectations on the world. Here, “happiness” becomes another brittle category, one that invites comparison, self-surveillance, and the anxious question: am I doing it right?
The intent, then, is less self-help than deprogramming. Zhuangzi suggests happiness is not a trophy but a side effect of alignment with the Dao: moving with circumstances rather than wrestling them into a preferred shape. The rhetoric is deliberately paradoxical because it targets the reader’s habit of instrumental thinking. If you try to use the quote as a technique to get happy, you’ve already missed it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Happiness |
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| Source | Later attribution: Happy Is the New Healthy (Joan Neehall, 2021) modern compilationISBN: 9781948677707 · ID: 6MkfEAAAQBAJ
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