"Happiness was not made to be boasted, but enjoyed. Therefore tho others count me miserable, I will not believe them if I know and feel myself to be happy; nor fear them"
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The line "not made to be boasted, but enjoyed" carries the theological subtext: boasting converts a gift into a possession, something the ego can display and defend. Enjoyment keeps it in the register of grace - received, experienced, then let go. It's also a warning about the corrosive feedback loop of reputation. Once happiness becomes a performance, it becomes vulnerable to the crowd's appetite for correction, skepticism, even punishment.
"Therefore tho others count me miserable" tilts toward a social reality Traherne would have known well: outward affliction, religious conflict, precarious livelihoods. He doesn't deny that you can look miserable; he denies that the look has jurisdiction over the self. The final kicker, "nor fear them", turns contentment into armor. If your inner life is intact, public opinion loses its favorite weapon: the ability to intimidate you into confessing you are unhappy.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Traherne, Thomas. (2026, January 18). Happiness was not made to be boasted, but enjoyed. Therefore tho others count me miserable, I will not believe them if I know and feel myself to be happy; nor fear them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/happiness-was-not-made-to-be-boasted-but-enjoyed-5698/
Chicago Style
Traherne, Thomas. "Happiness was not made to be boasted, but enjoyed. Therefore tho others count me miserable, I will not believe them if I know and feel myself to be happy; nor fear them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/happiness-was-not-made-to-be-boasted-but-enjoyed-5698/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Happiness was not made to be boasted, but enjoyed. Therefore tho others count me miserable, I will not believe them if I know and feel myself to be happy; nor fear them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/happiness-was-not-made-to-be-boasted-but-enjoyed-5698/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.








