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"Hate your next-door neighbor, but don't forget to say grace"

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Weaponized piety is the target here: a neat little portrait of a culture that can stomach cruelty as long as it keeps the manners of righteousness. "Hate your next-door neighbor" lands with the bluntness of a lyric you can chant, not an ethic you can defend. Then the pivot - "but don't forget to say grace" - exposes the coping mechanism. Grace, meant as gratitude and humility, becomes a cosmetic ritual, a spiritual wet wipe that lets you feel clean after acting dirty.

As a musician who came up in the era of protest songwriting, McGuire is working in the idiom of the jab: compress the hypocrisy into a couplet that sounds like a slogan and sticks like a hook. The specific intent is less to scold individual believers than to indict a social arrangement where religion functions as cultural branding. You can be neighbor-hating, politically hard, socially punitive, and still count yourself among the "good" people because you performed the signifiers: prayer, propriety, a quick nod to God before dinner.

The subtext is American and suburban: the "next-door neighbor" isn't an abstraction. It's race, class, politics, the family with the wrong yard sign, the accent you distrust. Saying grace becomes a parody of community - a private moment that substitutes for public mercy. McGuire's line works because it doesn't argue; it juxtaposes, letting the contradiction convict itself.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
McGuire, Barry. (2026, January 15). Hate your next-door neighbor, but don't forget to say grace. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hate-your-next-door-neighbor-but-dont-forget-to-140065/

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McGuire, Barry. "Hate your next-door neighbor, but don't forget to say grace." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hate-your-next-door-neighbor-but-dont-forget-to-140065/.

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"Hate your next-door neighbor, but don't forget to say grace." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hate-your-next-door-neighbor-but-dont-forget-to-140065/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Barry McGuire (born October 15, 1937) is a Musician from USA.

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