"Hate your next-door neighbor, but don't forget to say grace"
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As a musician who came up in the era of protest songwriting, McGuire is working in the idiom of the jab: compress the hypocrisy into a couplet that sounds like a slogan and sticks like a hook. The specific intent is less to scold individual believers than to indict a social arrangement where religion functions as cultural branding. You can be neighbor-hating, politically hard, socially punitive, and still count yourself among the "good" people because you performed the signifiers: prayer, propriety, a quick nod to God before dinner.
The subtext is American and suburban: the "next-door neighbor" isn't an abstraction. It's race, class, politics, the family with the wrong yard sign, the accent you distrust. Saying grace becomes a parody of community - a private moment that substitutes for public mercy. McGuire's line works because it doesn't argue; it juxtaposes, letting the contradiction convict itself.
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