"Have friends. 'Tis a second existence"
About this Quote
The line works because it treats identity as something distributed, not housed entirely in the individual. Your “first existence” is your solitary life: private intentions, inner character, the fragile narrative you tell yourself. Friends supply the backup system: witnesses who can vouch for you, interpreters who can translate you when you’re misunderstood, allies who can carry your name into rooms you can’t enter. Gracian’s subtext is slightly cynical but clarifying: society is relational infrastructure, and you either build it or become dependent on someone else’s.
There’s also a quieter philosophical punch. A “second existence” suggests that friendship isn’t merely support; it’s expansion. Through friends you inherit extra eyesight, extra memory, extra courage. Your life becomes more than your own limited angle on it. The imperative “Have friends” is blunt for a reason: solitude may feel pure, but it’s strategically naive. Gracian’s wit lies in making connection sound like metaphysics and logistics at the same time.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
|---|---|
| Source | "Have friends. 'Tis a second existence" — attributed to Baltasar Gracián; commonly cited from his maxims in The Art of Worldly Wisdom (Oráculo manual y arte de prudencia), 1647, in English translations. |
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"Have friends. 'Tis a second existence." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-friends-tis-a-second-existence-40306/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












