"Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again?"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “The place” is deliberately vague, letting the metaphor expand from the personal to the political. For Black Americans, the “place” is also the country itself, forever claiming it’s healing while repeatedly agitating the same old injuries through backlash, denial, and ritualized forgetting. Parks’s activism was rooted in strategy and discipline, but here she gives us something quieter and more intimate: a confession about the cost of staying awake to injustice. There’s no triumphalism, no sermon. Just the reality that healing is not only obstructed by external harm; it can be sabotaged by memory, vigilance, and the fear that closing the wound means pretending it didn’t happen.
It’s a warning against simplistic narratives of resilience: sometimes survival looks like refusing to stop touching the hurt, because the world keeps asking you to move on before it has changed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Parks, Rosa. (2026, February 18). Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-you-ever-been-hurt-and-the-place-tries-to-85932/
Chicago Style
Parks, Rosa. "Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again?" FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-you-ever-been-hurt-and-the-place-tries-to-85932/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again?" FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-you-ever-been-hurt-and-the-place-tries-to-85932/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.






