"Have you ever heard the expression: Walk a mile in my shoes, and then judge me? And write your own books"
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The intent is defensive, but not fragile. Rule is policing the boundary between armchair condemnation and lived, worked experience. As a true-crime writer who often dealt with victims, perpetrators, and the uneasy thrill of public curiosity, she was routinely exposed to a particular kind of judgment: the accusation that telling these stories is exploitation, or that she “owes” a certain stance, tone, or ending. Her line implies that critique without comparable labor is less ethical than the work being critiqued.
The subtext is also about authorship as accountability. “Write your own books” isn’t just “mind your business”; it’s “produce something you’re willing to sign.” Rule frames creation as a moral test: it’s easy to moralize about someone else’s narrative until you have to make the cuts, face the families, weigh harm, and live with the consequences on the page.
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"Have you ever heard the expression: Walk a mile in my shoes, and then judge me? And write your own books." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-you-ever-heard-the-expression-walk-a-mile-in-122637/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




