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"Have you ever heard the expression: Walk a mile in my shoes, and then judge me? And write your own books"

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Ann Rule takes a folksy empathy cliché and snaps it into a dare. “Walk a mile in my shoes” is usually an appeal for mercy, a softening device meant to slow down judgment. Rule keeps the opening, then jams in a hard right turn: “And write your own books.” The second sentence doesn’t ask for understanding; it challenges authority. If you’re going to criticize her choices, her methods, her subject matter, or her moral proximity to the crimes she chronicled, you don’t get to do it from the safe bleachers. You either earn the vantage point or admit you’re speculating.

The intent is defensive, but not fragile. Rule is policing the boundary between armchair condemnation and lived, worked experience. As a true-crime writer who often dealt with victims, perpetrators, and the uneasy thrill of public curiosity, she was routinely exposed to a particular kind of judgment: the accusation that telling these stories is exploitation, or that she “owes” a certain stance, tone, or ending. Her line implies that critique without comparable labor is less ethical than the work being critiqued.

The subtext is also about authorship as accountability. “Write your own books” isn’t just “mind your business”; it’s “produce something you’re willing to sign.” Rule frames creation as a moral test: it’s easy to moralize about someone else’s narrative until you have to make the cuts, face the families, weigh harm, and live with the consequences on the page.

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Rule, Ann. (2026, January 16). Have you ever heard the expression: Walk a mile in my shoes, and then judge me? And write your own books. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-you-ever-heard-the-expression-walk-a-mile-in-122637/

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Rule, Ann. "Have you ever heard the expression: Walk a mile in my shoes, and then judge me? And write your own books." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-you-ever-heard-the-expression-walk-a-mile-in-122637/.

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"Have you ever heard the expression: Walk a mile in my shoes, and then judge me? And write your own books." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/have-you-ever-heard-the-expression-walk-a-mile-in-122637/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ann Rule (October 22, 1935 - July 26, 2015) was a Writer from USA.

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