"Having an affair with an intern is just an incredibly stupid thing to do"
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The intent is to puncture the self-mythology that often surrounds powerful men caught in sexual misconduct narratives: the “couldn’t help myself” romance, the “private matter” dodge, the appeal to human weakness. Whitford refuses the poetic language. “Having an affair” is clinical, nearly bureaucratic; “intern” is the detonator, a single word that signals hierarchy, youth, career dependency, and the ugly asymmetry that makes consent complicated even when it’s nominally present. The subtext is that the stupidity isn’t incidental - it’s inseparable from entitlement. You have to believe the rules don’t apply to you to take that bet.
Culturally, the line reads like post-Clinton, post-#MeToo shorthand: a public tired of euphemism, eager to translate “personal failing” into “abuse of position.” It’s not absolution or outrage. It’s the colder verdict: you knew better, and you did it anyway.
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Whitford, Bradley. (2026, January 17). Having an affair with an intern is just an incredibly stupid thing to do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/having-an-affair-with-an-intern-is-just-an-44353/
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Whitford, Bradley. "Having an affair with an intern is just an incredibly stupid thing to do." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/having-an-affair-with-an-intern-is-just-an-44353/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Having an affair with an intern is just an incredibly stupid thing to do." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/having-an-affair-with-an-intern-is-just-an-44353/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.








