"He asked my girlfriend if we could come over and sing some of the songs that we had written, which we did. After he heard the songs, he said that he knew someone in the record business by the name of Bob Shad"
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The quote’s intent is disarmingly practical. Harris frames the moment as casual and relational, not heroic. The girlfriend is the hinge: she’s the social access point, the person through whom permission and proximity happen. That detail does more work than the later mention of Bob Shad. It signals that gatekeeping often looks like hospitality, and opportunity often arrives wrapped in the intimacy of someone else’s trust.
“Which we did” is key. It’s the understated ethic of the era: be ready to perform when the door cracks open. No dramatic pause, no tortured artist mystique, just competence meeting a slim opening. Then comes Shad, not as a savior but as a connector. Naming him grounds the story in the ecosystem of producers and A-and-R intermediaries who translated local talent into industry access.
Subtextually, Harris is also laundering luck into narrative. He’s not bragging; he’s documenting how much of a career can hinge on a small, polite audition and the right contact. The charm is that it’s almost anti-legend: fame begins, sometimes, with an invite and a referral.
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| Topic | Music |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Harris, Phil. (2026, January 16). He asked my girlfriend if we could come over and sing some of the songs that we had written, which we did. After he heard the songs, he said that he knew someone in the record business by the name of Bob Shad. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-asked-my-girlfriend-if-we-could-come-over-and-116844/
Chicago Style
Harris, Phil. "He asked my girlfriend if we could come over and sing some of the songs that we had written, which we did. After he heard the songs, he said that he knew someone in the record business by the name of Bob Shad." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-asked-my-girlfriend-if-we-could-come-over-and-116844/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He asked my girlfriend if we could come over and sing some of the songs that we had written, which we did. After he heard the songs, he said that he knew someone in the record business by the name of Bob Shad." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-asked-my-girlfriend-if-we-could-come-over-and-116844/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.


