"He didn't come out of my belly, but my God, I've made his bones, because I've attended to every meal, and how he sleeps, and the fact that he swims like a fish because I took him to the ocean. I'm so proud of all those things. But he is my biggest pride"
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The phrase "I've made his bones" does heavy lifting. It’s primal, almost folk-mythic, turning parenting into construction and nourishment into creation. Lennon isn’t just asserting love; he’s staking authorship. The subtext is a quiet rebuttal to the cultural script that treats men - especially famous ones - as optional in the home, and step-parents as secondary. Pride, repeated and escalated, reads like self-defense as much as celebration: he’s listing receipts because the world, and maybe his own past, doubts the legitimacy of this role.
Context matters. Lennon spent years embodying public masculinity: genius, chaos, spectacle. This is the counter-image, aligned with his later-era domestic turn and self-mythologizing as a reformed man. The power isn’t in sentimentality; it’s in the insistence that caretaking counts as creation, and that choosing to mother (his word choice makes that hard to ignore) can be its own kind of revolution.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lennon, John. (2026, January 17). He didn't come out of my belly, but my God, I've made his bones, because I've attended to every meal, and how he sleeps, and the fact that he swims like a fish because I took him to the ocean. I'm so proud of all those things. But he is my biggest pride. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-didnt-come-out-of-my-belly-but-my-god-ive-made-24839/
Chicago Style
Lennon, John. "He didn't come out of my belly, but my God, I've made his bones, because I've attended to every meal, and how he sleeps, and the fact that he swims like a fish because I took him to the ocean. I'm so proud of all those things. But he is my biggest pride." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-didnt-come-out-of-my-belly-but-my-god-ive-made-24839/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He didn't come out of my belly, but my God, I've made his bones, because I've attended to every meal, and how he sleeps, and the fact that he swims like a fish because I took him to the ocean. I'm so proud of all those things. But he is my biggest pride." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-didnt-come-out-of-my-belly-but-my-god-ive-made-24839/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








