"He explained how ridiculous the clowning was, and there and then I decided to settle down and play seriously"
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The line "there and then" matters. It frames seriousness not as a slow maturation but as a decision made under pressure, almost a conversion. Someone "explained" it to her, suggesting mentorship and a coded lesson in professional survival: if the room wants a caricature, the way out is competence so undeniable it can't be reduced to a gag. Williams isn't rejecting joy or swing; she's rejecting being managed, talked over, or booked as a cute act.
"Settle down" carries domestic overtones, and in a woman's mouth it's loaded. She repurposes a phrase often aimed at disciplining women and turns it into artistic self-discipline: a commitment to rigor, to arrangement, to harmonic ambition. For a musician who moved fluidly from Kansas City to New York, from big bands to sacred works, the subtext is clear: play "seriously" is both an aesthetic stance and a political one. It's how you claim authorship in a world that wants you as decoration.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Williams, Mary Lou. (2026, January 16). He explained how ridiculous the clowning was, and there and then I decided to settle down and play seriously. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-explained-how-ridiculous-the-clowning-was-and-134169/
Chicago Style
Williams, Mary Lou. "He explained how ridiculous the clowning was, and there and then I decided to settle down and play seriously." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-explained-how-ridiculous-the-clowning-was-and-134169/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He explained how ridiculous the clowning was, and there and then I decided to settle down and play seriously." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-explained-how-ridiculous-the-clowning-was-and-134169/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.





