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Daily Inspiration Quote by Graham Greene

"He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong"

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Greene nails a perverse truth about human attachment: misery can start to feel like home. The line turns loyalty, usually reserved for people, countries, causes, into something ugly and intimate. Unhappiness isn’t just endured; it’s enlisted. That’s the sting. By phrasing it as "the loyalty we feel", Greene recruits the reader into complicity, as if this is a private citizenship we all hold without admitting it.

The subtext is psychological but also moral. "Belong" implies identity, not mood. Unhappiness becomes a place with boundaries and rules, a familiar architecture. Greene’s characters so often live in the shadowland between faith and failure, and this sentence captures that gravitational pull: suffering offers coherence. It explains you. It justifies your caution. It gives you a script when hope would demand improvisation and risk.

Calling it loyalty also suggests betrayal: choosing unhappiness can be a way of staying faithful to an old self, to past damage, to a worldview where expecting less is safer. There’s a dark comfort in the predictable. Greene’s Catholic-inflected universe is never far away here, either; pain reads as penance, and penance reads as meaning. The quote works because it refuses the tidy modern story that happiness is our natural state. Greene implies the opposite: for many, happiness is the foreign country, and misery is the passport that always scans.

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TopicSadness
SourceThe End of the Affair (novel), Graham Greene, 1951. Line commonly cited from Greene's novel.
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Greene, Graham. (2026, January 16). He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-felt-the-loyalty-we-feel-to-unhappiness-the-90201/

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Greene, Graham. "He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-felt-the-loyalty-we-feel-to-unhappiness-the-90201/.

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"He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-felt-the-loyalty-we-feel-to-unhappiness-the-90201/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Graham Greene (October 2, 1904 - April 3, 1991) was a Playwright from United Kingdom.

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