"He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong"
About this Quote
The subtext is psychological but also moral. "Belong" implies identity, not mood. Unhappiness becomes a place with boundaries and rules, a familiar architecture. Greene’s characters so often live in the shadowland between faith and failure, and this sentence captures that gravitational pull: suffering offers coherence. It explains you. It justifies your caution. It gives you a script when hope would demand improvisation and risk.
Calling it loyalty also suggests betrayal: choosing unhappiness can be a way of staying faithful to an old self, to past damage, to a worldview where expecting less is safer. There’s a dark comfort in the predictable. Greene’s Catholic-inflected universe is never far away here, either; pain reads as penance, and penance reads as meaning. The quote works because it refuses the tidy modern story that happiness is our natural state. Greene implies the opposite: for many, happiness is the foreign country, and misery is the passport that always scans.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sadness |
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| Source | The End of the Affair (novel), Graham Greene, 1951. Line commonly cited from Greene's novel. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Greene, Graham. (2026, January 16). He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-felt-the-loyalty-we-feel-to-unhappiness-the-90201/
Chicago Style
Greene, Graham. "He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-felt-the-loyalty-we-feel-to-unhappiness-the-90201/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He felt the loyalty we feel to unhappiness - the sense that is where we really belong." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-felt-the-loyalty-we-feel-to-unhappiness-the-90201/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












