"He had written my mother once that he wanted her to be the first thing he saw every morning and the last thing he ever saw. And that's how it turned out"
About this Quote
The intent feels twofold: to honor a marriage without turning it into propaganda, and to register the unsettling fact that long-term love often ends in caretaking, not candlelight. The subtext is that this isn’t just about romance; it’s about dependency, endurance, and the quiet claustrophobia of being someone’s whole horizon. It also carries an implicit warning about the stories Americans like to tell about the Reagans: the glossy mythology of “the great love” meets the unglamorous reality of final years.
Context matters because Ron Reagan is not a court biographer. As a journalist and famously skeptical son, he’s skilled at letting a single domestic detail undercut an entire public legend without overtly arguing. The line works because it’s intimate and unsentimental at once - tenderness delivered with a reporter’s deadpan, where the punch comes from accuracy, not flourish.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reagan, Ron. (2026, January 16). He had written my mother once that he wanted her to be the first thing he saw every morning and the last thing he ever saw. And that's how it turned out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-had-written-my-mother-once-that-he-wanted-her-94536/
Chicago Style
Reagan, Ron. "He had written my mother once that he wanted her to be the first thing he saw every morning and the last thing he ever saw. And that's how it turned out." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-had-written-my-mother-once-that-he-wanted-her-94536/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He had written my mother once that he wanted her to be the first thing he saw every morning and the last thing he ever saw. And that's how it turned out." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-had-written-my-mother-once-that-he-wanted-her-94536/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







