"He just had a very unique way of expressing himself physically with his kids"
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“He just had a very unique way of expressing himself physically with his kids” is the kind of sentence that sounds benign until you notice how much work the word “unique” is doing. Dennis Wilson isn’t describing a parenting style so much as laundering it. “Expressing himself physically” borrows the language of art and performance to reframe touch as self-expression, centering the adult’s impulses rather than the child’s experience. It’s an aesthetic alibi: if it’s expression, it can’t be harm; if it’s unique, it can’t be judged by ordinary rules.
Coming from a musician in the 1970s rock ecosystem, the phrasing lands inside a familiar cultural fog: the era’s romanticization of boundary-breaking, the messy overlap between liberation and license, the reflex to protect charismatic men by translating misconduct into eccentricity. Wilson, as a Beach Boy, came out of a world where “weird” was often synonymous with “genius,” and where private behavior was treated as a backstage detail, not a moral fact. That context matters because the sentence isn’t just personal defensiveness; it’s a snapshot of a broader social script.
The subtext is caution without accusation, sympathy without accountability. “He just” minimizes; “very” intensifies without clarifying; “way” stays vague, offering listeners a soft-focus image they can accept without interrogating. It’s the rhetorical equivalent of turning down the lights and turning up the music: keep the mood, lose the specifics.
Coming from a musician in the 1970s rock ecosystem, the phrasing lands inside a familiar cultural fog: the era’s romanticization of boundary-breaking, the messy overlap between liberation and license, the reflex to protect charismatic men by translating misconduct into eccentricity. Wilson, as a Beach Boy, came out of a world where “weird” was often synonymous with “genius,” and where private behavior was treated as a backstage detail, not a moral fact. That context matters because the sentence isn’t just personal defensiveness; it’s a snapshot of a broader social script.
The subtext is caution without accusation, sympathy without accountability. “He just” minimizes; “very” intensifies without clarifying; “way” stays vague, offering listeners a soft-focus image they can accept without interrogating. It’s the rhetorical equivalent of turning down the lights and turning up the music: keep the mood, lose the specifics.
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