"He that cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven; for everyone has need to be forgiven"
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The subtext is shrewdly egalitarian. Herbert doesn’t flatter the reader with moral exceptionalism; he levels everyone with the blunt clause “for everyone has need to be forgiven.” That last phrase functions like a theological mic drop, collapsing the distance between judge and judged. It also shifts forgiveness from sentiment to realism: you forgive because you’re the kind of creature who will, inevitably, require it.
Context matters: Herbert writes as a devotional poet in post-Reformation England, where salvation, grace, and the mechanics of repentance were not abstract ideas but daily spiritual accounting. The bridge metaphor echoes Protestant emphases on inward faith and outward conduct, while refusing any fantasy that salvation is earned via harshness. Even the syntax presses its moral logic: the long, conditional sentence forces you to walk its span, step by step, until the conclusion lands. Herbert’s intent isn’t to sentimentalize mercy; it’s to expose unforgiveness as a theological contradiction and a strategic blunder.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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Herbert, George. (2026, January 15). He that cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven; for everyone has need to be forgiven. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-cannot-forgive-others-breaks-the-bridge-8511/
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Herbert, George. "He that cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven; for everyone has need to be forgiven." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-cannot-forgive-others-breaks-the-bridge-8511/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He that cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass if he would ever reach heaven; for everyone has need to be forgiven." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-cannot-forgive-others-breaks-the-bridge-8511/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.









