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Daily Inspiration Quote by Baltasar Gracian

"He that communicates his secret to another makes himself that other's slave"

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A secret, in Gracian's hands, is less a confession than a contract signed in invisible ink. "He that communicates his secret to another makes himself that other's slave" lands with the cold efficiency of court advice because that's the world it comes from: Baroque Spain, where reputations were currency, patronage was survival, and a loose tongue could be fatal. Gracian isn't moralizing about honesty; he's diagramming power.

The intent is tactical. Sharing a secret feels like intimacy, but it also creates leverage. The listener now holds a piece of your story you can't fully control: they can trade it, weaponize it, or simply let it shape how they see you. Even if they never speak, your imagination does the coercion for them. You anticipate their judgment, you manage their reactions, you adjust your behavior to keep the secret safe. That's the "slave" part: the dependency isn't enforced by chains but by anxiety and asymmetry.

Subtextually, Gracian punctures the romantic idea that trust is pure. He suggests that vulnerability is rarely neutral in hierarchical settings; it's a gamble where the house is human nature. His phrasing is deliberately absolute - "makes himself" pins responsibility on the speaker. You weren't betrayed; you ceded control.

Read now, it sounds like a primer for the group chat era, where disclosure is social glue and screenshots are always implied. Gracian's cynicism survives because it isn't about paranoia; it's about incentives. Secrets don't just reveal who you are. They create who has power over you.

Quote Details

TopicWisdom
SourceBaltasar Gracián, The Art of Worldly Wisdom (Oraculo manual y arte de prudencia), 1647 — aphorism in his collection of maxims; appears in English translations of Gracián's aphorisms.
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Gracian, Baltasar. (2026, January 17). He that communicates his secret to another makes himself that other's slave. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-communicates-his-secret-to-another-makes-38546/

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Gracian, Baltasar. "He that communicates his secret to another makes himself that other's slave." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-communicates-his-secret-to-another-makes-38546/.

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"He that communicates his secret to another makes himself that other's slave." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-communicates-his-secret-to-another-makes-38546/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Baltasar Gracian

Baltasar Gracian (January 8, 1601 - December 6, 1658) was a Philosopher from Spain.

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