"He that has satisfied his thirst turns his back on the well"
About this Quote
As a Baroque-era Spanish moralist writing in a courtly world of patronage, he’s speaking to a culture where loyalty was transactional and precarious. Today we’d call it networking with knives out. The satisfied man isn’t wicked; he’s ordinary. That’s Gracian’s sting. He’s not diagnosing a rare vice but a default setting: humans treat support systems as invisible once they stop hurting. The subtext is pragmatic, almost Machiavellian: if you are the well - the helper, the institution, the friend who always shows up - don’t expect memory to protect you. Build reciprocity, or build distance.
The aphorism also reads as a warning about power. When people no longer need you, they may resent the reminder that they once did. Turning away becomes a performance of self-sufficiency. Gracian’s genius is to compress an entire cycle - need, relief, denial - into a single bodily gesture, making ingratitude feel less like a moral failure than a reflex.
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Gracian, Baltasar. (2026, January 16). He that has satisfied his thirst turns his back on the well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-has-satisfied-his-thirst-turns-his-back-138939/
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Gracian, Baltasar. "He that has satisfied his thirst turns his back on the well." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-has-satisfied-his-thirst-turns-his-back-138939/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He that has satisfied his thirst turns his back on the well." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-that-has-satisfied-his-thirst-turns-his-back-138939/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






