"He travels fastest who travels alone, and that goes double for she. Real feminism is spinsterhood"
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King’s line lands like a compliment that turns into a dare. “He travels fastest who travels alone” borrows the cadence of self-help grit and pioneer mythology, then snaps it into a gendered correction: “and that goes double for she.” The joke is that the old proverb was built for men; King smuggles women into it by making “she” sound both obvious and transgressive. It’s a tiny grammatical insurgency.
“Real feminism is spinsterhood” is the sharper blade. King isn’t offering a program; she’s needling a movement that, in her view, kept trying to win equality while still treating coupledom as the default prize. Spinsterhood here isn’t loneliness so much as unbought time. It’s the refusal to subsidize men’s careers with women’s unpaid emotional labor, to let romance become a second job, to translate liberation into better terms inside the same old arrangement. Calling it “real” feminism is deliberately obnoxious gatekeeping, a provocation meant to expose how quickly even self-identified feminists can flinch at the stigma attached to unmarried women.
Context matters: King wrote from a contrarian, often acerbic mid-to-late 20th-century American perch, skeptical of orthodoxies on both left and right. The line reads less like a communal manifesto than a soloist’s creed - freedom as exit, not reform. Its subtext is bleakly practical: for women, “traveling alone” isn’t just romantic independence; it’s a strategy for speed in a world that keeps handing them extra baggage.
“Real feminism is spinsterhood” is the sharper blade. King isn’t offering a program; she’s needling a movement that, in her view, kept trying to win equality while still treating coupledom as the default prize. Spinsterhood here isn’t loneliness so much as unbought time. It’s the refusal to subsidize men’s careers with women’s unpaid emotional labor, to let romance become a second job, to translate liberation into better terms inside the same old arrangement. Calling it “real” feminism is deliberately obnoxious gatekeeping, a provocation meant to expose how quickly even self-identified feminists can flinch at the stigma attached to unmarried women.
Context matters: King wrote from a contrarian, often acerbic mid-to-late 20th-century American perch, skeptical of orthodoxies on both left and right. The line reads less like a communal manifesto than a soloist’s creed - freedom as exit, not reform. Its subtext is bleakly practical: for women, “traveling alone” isn’t just romantic independence; it’s a strategy for speed in a world that keeps handing them extra baggage.
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