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Daily Inspiration Quote by Fay Wray

"He was just trying to tease me - I knew that later - but he said he'd have to leave because it wasn't fair to have anyone in the room who was going to make fun of what he had to say. He had a good sense of humor, really"

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The line lands like a polite bruise: you can feel the sting, then watch it get bandaged in real time. Fay Wray frames the moment as “just trying to tease me,” but only after the fact - “I knew that later” is doing heavy lifting. It’s the language of someone retrofitting generosity onto an interaction that, in the room, didn’t feel generous at all. The anecdote is less about the joke than about power: who gets to declare something “not fair,” who gets to exit dramatically, who gets recast as the one “making fun” when the original move was provocation.

Her phrasing sketches a classic social trap, especially familiar to women in entertainment’s old hierarchies. If you push back, you’re humorless; if you laugh along, you consent to being diminished. The man’s complaint - that he can’t speak freely if he might be mocked - is a tidy reversal, shifting him into the role of vulnerable truth-teller and her into the role of heckler. It’s a preemptive demand for deference, disguised as sensitivity.

Then comes the kicker: “He had a good sense of humor, really.” The “really” reads like a practiced softener, the kind that keeps the story tellable without turning it into an accusation. Wray preserves his likability while quietly recording the mechanics of intimidation-by-charm. In a business built on managing egos, that’s not naivete; it’s strategy, and it reveals how often “humor” operates as social cover for control.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wray, Fay. (2026, January 17). He was just trying to tease me - I knew that later - but he said he'd have to leave because it wasn't fair to have anyone in the room who was going to make fun of what he had to say. He had a good sense of humor, really. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-was-just-trying-to-tease-me-i-knew-that-60175/

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Wray, Fay. "He was just trying to tease me - I knew that later - but he said he'd have to leave because it wasn't fair to have anyone in the room who was going to make fun of what he had to say. He had a good sense of humor, really." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-was-just-trying-to-tease-me-i-knew-that-60175/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He was just trying to tease me - I knew that later - but he said he'd have to leave because it wasn't fair to have anyone in the room who was going to make fun of what he had to say. He had a good sense of humor, really." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-was-just-trying-to-tease-me-i-knew-that-60175/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Fay Wray (September 15, 1907 - August 8, 2004) was a Actress from USA.

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