"He wasn't a great father. He was a great musician. That's always been a touchy one, and it will be until I can find the answer, but I don't know if there is one"
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The repetition of “great” is the tell. It’s the same word, applied to two roles that society loves to fuse together. Julian is pushing back on that lazy math. The subtext is a lifelong negotiation with a public that feels entitled to his grief: if John was a prophet of peace, what does it mean that he failed at the most intimate version of care? Julian’s answer is neither vindictive nor absolving. It’s a portrait of cognitive dissonance spoken out loud.
“That’s always been a touchy one” reads like a wry understatement - the kind people use when the truth is too loaded to carry directly. Then he punctures any neat moral with uncertainty: “until I can find the answer... but I don’t know if there is one.” That admission is the real point. He’s not offering closure; he’s describing why closure is impossible when your father is also a brand, a myth, a soundtrack. The quote works because it rejects the tidy arc. It insists that some contradictions aren’t meant to be solved, only lived with.
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Lennon, Julian. (n.d.). He wasn't a great father. He was a great musician. That's always been a touchy one, and it will be until I can find the answer, but I don't know if there is one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-wasnt-a-great-father-he-was-a-great-musician-169515/
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Lennon, Julian. "He wasn't a great father. He was a great musician. That's always been a touchy one, and it will be until I can find the answer, but I don't know if there is one." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-wasnt-a-great-father-he-was-a-great-musician-169515/.
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"He wasn't a great father. He was a great musician. That's always been a touchy one, and it will be until I can find the answer, but I don't know if there is one." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-wasnt-a-great-father-he-was-a-great-musician-169515/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.



