"He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice"
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What makes the quote work is its ruthless definition of “essence.” Taylor isn’t praising self-sacrifice because he’s romantic about suffering; he’s narrowing the category so that “generosity” can’t be diluted into vague niceness. The subtext is almost prosecutorial: if your giving doesn’t pinch, it’s not virtue, it’s convenience. That’s why the phrasing “as readily throw away” matters. It frames certain acts of “giving” as barely a choice at all, more like disposing of excess through a socially flattering channel.
In Taylor’s 19th-century context, this lands amid a culture of philanthropy, class anxiety, and public moral performance. The era loved charitable societies and moral instruction, but it also produced a lot of reputational giving - gestures that kept social order intact while burnishing the giver’s status. Taylor, writing for audiences attuned to character and hypocrisy, sharpens the distinction: generosity is not the transfer of goods; it’s the surrender of comfort, time, pride, or security. The line quietly dares you to check your receipts - not the financial ones, the psychic ones.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Notes from Life in Six Essays (Henry Taylor, 1847)
Evidence: He who gives only what he would as readily throw away gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self-sacrifice. (Essay: "Money" (page number not verifiable from accessible scan)). Primary-source attribution points to Sir Henry Taylor’s essay "Money" in Notes from Life. HathiTrust’s catalog record confirms an 1847 John Murray (London) edition and provides a stable handle URL. However, HathiTrust’s text-only viewer in this environment is restricted (page-at-a-time + tool timeouts/URL constraints), so I cannot reliably extract the exact page number from the 1847 scan here. The wording you supplied differs slightly from the version most commonly sourced (it usually appears as "only what" and "self-sacrifice"). The earliest publication evidenced by library/catalog data for the work is 1847; later editions/US reissues (often cited as 1853) appear to be reprints/expanded arrangements rather than the first appearance. Other candidates (1) Many Thoughts of Many Minds (Louis Klopsch, 1896) compilation96.6% ... He who gives what he would as readily throw away gives without generosity ; for the essence of generosity is in s... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Taylor, Henry. (2026, February 22). He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-what-he-would-as-readily-throw-away-117514/
Chicago Style
Taylor, Henry. "He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice." FixQuotes. February 22, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-what-he-would-as-readily-throw-away-117514/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice." FixQuotes, 22 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-what-he-would-as-readily-throw-away-117514/. Accessed 14 Mar. 2026.









