"He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice"
About this Quote
What makes the quote work is its ruthless definition of “essence.” Taylor isn’t praising self-sacrifice because he’s romantic about suffering; he’s narrowing the category so that “generosity” can’t be diluted into vague niceness. The subtext is almost prosecutorial: if your giving doesn’t pinch, it’s not virtue, it’s convenience. That’s why the phrasing “as readily throw away” matters. It frames certain acts of “giving” as barely a choice at all, more like disposing of excess through a socially flattering channel.
In Taylor’s 19th-century context, this lands amid a culture of philanthropy, class anxiety, and public moral performance. The era loved charitable societies and moral instruction, but it also produced a lot of reputational giving - gestures that kept social order intact while burnishing the giver’s status. Taylor, writing for audiences attuned to character and hypocrisy, sharpens the distinction: generosity is not the transfer of goods; it’s the surrender of comfort, time, pride, or security. The line quietly dares you to check your receipts - not the financial ones, the psychic ones.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Taylor, Henry. (2026, January 15). He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-what-he-would-as-readily-throw-away-117514/
Chicago Style
Taylor, Henry. "He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-what-he-would-as-readily-throw-away-117514/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He who gives what he would as readily throw away, gives without generosity; for the essence of generosity is in self sacrifice." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-what-he-would-as-readily-throw-away-117514/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









