"He who gives while he lives: get to know where it goes"
About this Quote
The specific intent is practical and a little provocative: don’t wait to be dead to be charitable, because dead people can’t course-correct. “Get to know where it goes” carries the subtext that money has a way of drifting once it leaves your hands. Foundations become bureaucracies. Bequests get diluted by committees, overhead, and mission creep. Ross is nudging the donor to behave like an owner: verify outcomes, reward competence, withdraw support when it’s wasted. That’s philanthropy as feedback loop, not absolution.
Context matters: late 20th-century American giving increasingly blurred into branding, with entrepreneurs turning generosity into a public persona. Ross’s quote sits comfortably in that world. It legitimizes visibility and oversight without calling them vanity. It also quietly critiques the moral theater of posthumous gifts, where the giver gets the glory and none of the responsibility for consequences. Ross’s worldview is clear: generosity counts most when it’s accountable in real time, while you’re still around to be challenged by what your “good deed” actually produces.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ross, Percy. (2026, February 17). He who gives while he lives: get to know where it goes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-while-he-lives-get-to-know-where-it-128664/
Chicago Style
Ross, Percy. "He who gives while he lives: get to know where it goes." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-while-he-lives-get-to-know-where-it-128664/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He who gives while he lives: get to know where it goes." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-gives-while-he-lives-get-to-know-where-it-128664/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.










