"He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy"
About this Quote
The quote works because it weaponizes a spiritual insight (attachment breeds suffering) into a political ethic (attachment breeds leverage). Fear and sorrow aren’t treated as tragic but noble emotions; they’re treated as predictable outcomes of dependence. By framing grief as a “root” problem rather than an episodic wound, Chanakya proposes an almost clinical solution: detach, and you remove the handle life uses to jerk you around. It’s a bracing inversion of the usual moral hierarchy where family devotion is proof of virtue.
The subtext is even sharper: if you want to govern, you can’t afford to be governed by your private ties. Attachment makes you governable by others - bribable through affection, blackmailable through kin, softened by sentiment when harsh decisions are required. “Discard attachment” isn’t a call to cruelty for its own sake; it’s a prescription for clarity under pressure. Happiness, here, reads less like bliss and more like strategic calm: the ruler’s version of freedom.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chanakya. (2026, January 17). He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-is-overly-attached-to-his-family-members-30469/
Chicago Style
Chanakya. "He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-is-overly-attached-to-his-family-members-30469/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-is-overly-attached-to-his-family-members-30469/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.













