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Love Quote by Chanakya

"He who lives in our mind is near, though he may actually be far away; but he who is not in our heart is far, though he may really be nearby"

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Distance gets demoted from geography to psychology in Chanakya's hands, and that demotion is the whole power move. For a politician - and one who helped architect statecraft in an age of fragile alliances - "near" and "far" are not measurements; they are verdicts. The line splits human connection into two courts: the mind (attention, calculation, memory) and the heart (loyalty, attachment, duty). You can be strategically "near" to someone you haven't seen in years because they occupy your planning. You can be physically adjacent to someone and still be exiled if trust has evaporated.

The subtext is bluntly transactional in a way modern readers sometimes want to romanticize. Chanakya isn't offering a Hallmark consolation about missing loved ones; he's describing how power and belonging actually operate. Presence is irrelevant without relevance. In court politics, the dangerous figure isn't the distant rival; it's the nearby non-ally - the person at your table who isn't in your heart, whose interests don't bind to yours. Proximity becomes a vulnerability when affiliation is missing.

Context matters: Chanakya's world was one where empires consolidated through networks of patronage, surveillance, and persuasion. Keeping someone "in mind" reads like intelligence work: monitoring, remembering debts, anticipating moves. Keeping someone "in heart" suggests a rarer category: kinship or loyal service that holds under pressure. The quote works because it turns a cozy metaphor into a cold diagnostic tool, making intimacy and strategy look uncomfortably similar.

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Chanakya. (2026, February 19). He who lives in our mind is near, though he may actually be far away; but he who is not in our heart is far, though he may really be nearby. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-lives-in-our-mind-is-near-though-he-may-30470/

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Chanakya. "He who lives in our mind is near, though he may actually be far away; but he who is not in our heart is far, though he may really be nearby." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-lives-in-our-mind-is-near-though-he-may-30470/.

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"He who lives in our mind is near, though he may actually be far away; but he who is not in our heart is far, though he may really be nearby." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-lives-in-our-mind-is-near-though-he-may-30470/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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Chanakya (350 BC - 275 BC) was a Politician from India.

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