"He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes"
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The subtext is deliberately unsettling: if you read it through ordinary morality, “love no one” sounds cold, even monstrous. That discomfort is part of the teaching. Buddhism often uses rhetorical friction to expose a hidden assumption: that love must equal possession, that intimacy must equal control, that devotion must come with an invoice. The quote pressures you to notice how easily “I love you” becomes “I need you to be a certain way so I can feel okay.”
Context matters. Early Buddhist discourse wasn’t aimed at optimizing a modern social life; it was built for liberation from the cycle of dissatisfaction. Monastic ideals hover behind the line: fewer attachments, fewer hooks, more mental freedom. But the most radical implication isn’t that you should stop loving; it’s that you should change the kind of love you practice. Replace clingy, anxious attachment with compassion that doesn’t demand guarantees, and you keep the connection without signing up for the woes.
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"He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-loves-50-people-has-50-woes-he-who-loves-22162/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










