"He who wishes to be obeyed must know how to command"
About this Quote
The specific intent is practical, almost managerial: command is a skill, not a virtue. That phrasing matters. Machiavelli is stripping leadership of its medieval halo - divine right, inherited honor, moral deservingness - and replacing it with technique. "Know how" is the cold hinge of the quote. It implies training, timing, and an understanding of people as they are, not as sermons say they should be.
The subtext is the real Machiavellian bite: obedience is secured through clarity and credibility as much as through fear. A commander who hesitates, contradicts himself, or cannot enforce his directives invites dissent. To "know how to command" means reading incentives, managing perception, selecting punishments sparingly but decisively, and creating structures where following orders feels safer than freelancing.
Context sharpens the cynicism. Writing in the violent, faction-ridden Italian city-states of the Renaissance, Machiavelli watched governments collapse under sentimental leadership and improvised moralizing. In that world, the ruler who wants stability cannot merely be good; he has to be effective. The quote works because it refuses comfort: legitimacy is not a halo you wear, it's leverage you earn.
Quote Details
| Topic | Leadership |
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| Source | Verified source: Discourses on the First Decade of Titus Livius (Niccolo Machiavelli, 1513)
Evidence: And here be it noted that if you would be obeyed you must know how to command, and that they alone have this knowledge who have measured their power to enforce, with the willingness of others to yield obedience; and who issue their orders when they find these conditions combining, but, otherwise, abstain. (Book III, Chapter XXII). This wording appears in an English translation of Machiavelli’s Discourses (Project Gutenberg eBook #10827). The same passage also appears (with very similar wording) in an online edition of Discourses, Book III, Chapter XXII, where it is introduced with: “And here we may note that he who wishes to be obeyed must know how to command; ...”. In terms of earliest appearance: Machiavelli composed the Discourses in the 1510s (often dated as begun in 1513). The work’s first printed edition was published posthumously in 1531 (Rome/Florence editions), so the quote was not ‘first published’ until 1531; 1513 is best understood as the commonly cited composition/start date rather than publication date. Other candidates (1) Quotes: The Famous and Not so Famous (Terence M. Dorn Ph.D., 2021) compilation95.0% ... Niccolo Machiavelli It is better to be feared than loved , if you cannot be both.- Niccolo Machiavelli He who wis... |
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