"Her friends say she is very funny. At a family dinner, she stood to go, and the footman very properly pulled her chair away. At that moment I asked her a question and she sat down again, except there was no chair. Everyone, including the Queen, laughed and laughed"
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Its mechanics are classic upper-house farce: a footman, a chair whisked away, a social rhythm so rigid that a tiny disruption becomes hilarious. The footman is described as "very properly" doing his job, which is telling. The laughter depends on a world where service is invisible until it misfires; the humor comes from choreography, not personality. The woman isn't witty so much as physically (and socially) wrong-footed, and everyone laughs because the rules briefly break without threatening the hierarchy that makes the dinner possible.
The subtext is the dangerous ease with which privilege turns embarrassment into entertainment. Someone falls - but softly, safely, in a room designed to absorb the shock. The story signals intimacy with power ("including the Queen") while keeping the consequences weightless, as if the presence of royalty sanitizes the scene into harmless anecdote.
Context matters because royal storytelling is always performative: it offers a curated glimpse of normality ("family dinner") while reminding you it isn't normal at all (footmen, protocol, a Queen as laugh track). The intent is warmth and charm, but what lingers is a portrait of a sealed social ecosystem where humiliation reads as convivial, and laughter doubles as proof that everyone knows their place.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Andrew, Prince. (2026, January 18). Her friends say she is very funny. At a family dinner, she stood to go, and the footman very properly pulled her chair away. At that moment I asked her a question and she sat down again, except there was no chair. Everyone, including the Queen, laughed and laughed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/her-friends-say-she-is-very-funny-at-a-family-9523/
Chicago Style
Andrew, Prince. "Her friends say she is very funny. At a family dinner, she stood to go, and the footman very properly pulled her chair away. At that moment I asked her a question and she sat down again, except there was no chair. Everyone, including the Queen, laughed and laughed." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/her-friends-say-she-is-very-funny-at-a-family-9523/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Her friends say she is very funny. At a family dinner, she stood to go, and the footman very properly pulled her chair away. At that moment I asked her a question and she sat down again, except there was no chair. Everyone, including the Queen, laughed and laughed." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/her-friends-say-she-is-very-funny-at-a-family-9523/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.






