"He's psychologically damaged, I suppose, if you stand back and look objectively at him, but then, who isn't?"
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The turn - “but then, who isn’t?” - is the real payload. It pulls the listener out of spectator mode and forces complicity. If damage is everywhere, then the label stops being a verdict and becomes a condition of being alive. That’s a strangely humane move, but it’s also a sly defense mechanism: if everyone’s cracked, no one gets to play judge for long.
Coming from an actor (and specifically Darrow, whose on-screen persona often trafficked in cool detachment and weaponized charm), the line reads like meta-commentary on character itself. “Psychologically damaged” is what scripts and critics say when a character is too volatile, too intense, too interesting. Darrow acknowledges the trope, then widens the lens to suggest the trope exists because it’s true: we’re all walking around with private backstories, half-coped-with grief, and improvised self-mythologies.
The intent isn’t to excuse bad behavior; it’s to deflate moral theater. Objectivity, Darrow hints, is often just distance dressed up as authority.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Darrow, Paul. (2026, January 15). He's psychologically damaged, I suppose, if you stand back and look objectively at him, but then, who isn't? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hes-psychologically-damaged-i-suppose-if-you-169061/
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Darrow, Paul. "He's psychologically damaged, I suppose, if you stand back and look objectively at him, but then, who isn't?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hes-psychologically-damaged-i-suppose-if-you-169061/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"He's psychologically damaged, I suppose, if you stand back and look objectively at him, but then, who isn't?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hes-psychologically-damaged-i-suppose-if-you-169061/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.











