"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself"
About this Quote
The second sentence tightens the screw. “Never excuse yourself” isn’t advice about optics; it’s a preemptive strike against self-deception. Beecher is targeting the most convenient loophole in any ethical system: the story we tell to make our failure feel inevitable, justified, or someone else’s fault. In a religious context, excuses are spiritual anesthetic. They dull the sting that might otherwise produce change.
Historically, Beecher preached in an America obsessed with respectability, self-improvement, and moral reform, where character was treated like both a civic duty and a personal brand. The quote flatters that era’s belief in willpower while warning against its favorite sin: hypocrisy. If you can excuse yourself, you can do almost anything and still feel righteous. Beecher’s intent is to make that comfort impossible.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Discipline |
|---|---|
| Source | Henry Ward Beecher — quote: "Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself." — listed on Henry Ward Beecher Wikiquote entry. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Beecher, Henry Ward. (2026, January 15). Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hold-yourself-responsible-for-a-higher-standard-35079/
Chicago Style
Beecher, Henry Ward. "Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hold-yourself-responsible-for-a-higher-standard-35079/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody expects of you. Never excuse yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hold-yourself-responsible-for-a-higher-standard-35079/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




