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Happiness Quote by Joan Lunden

"Holding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense muscles, a headache and a sore jaw from clenching your teeth. Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and the lightness in your life"

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Joan Lunden sells forgiveness the way daytime TV sells wellness: not as a saintly act, but as a practical upgrade. The genius of the line is its bait-and-switch. It starts in the body, not the soul. Anger becomes a clenched jaw, a headache, tense muscles - the language of stress, dentistry, and doctor visits. That’s a very American translation of emotion into symptoms, and it fits Lunden’s public identity as a broadcast companion who spent decades making private struggles legible in public, reassuring terms.

The intent is persuasive, almost consumer-friendly: stop “holding on” because it costs you. Resentment isn’t framed as morally wrong; it’s framed as inefficient. By locating harm in the jaw and shoulders, she sidesteps the thornier question of whether someone deserves forgiveness. The subtext is, “You can’t control what happened, but you can control what it’s doing to you.” That’s a staple of self-help culture, but Lunden gives it a tactile hook that makes the advice feel less like therapy-speak and more like everyday common sense.

“Gives you back the laughter and the lightness” finishes the pitch with a lifestyle promise: forgiveness as a return to a version of yourself you miss. It’s not justice, reconciliation, or amnesia - it’s relief. In a media ecosystem built on keeping audiences calm enough to keep watching, forgiveness becomes a self-protective act, a way to reclaim your body and your mood from someone else’s bad moment.

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Joan Lunden (born September 19, 1950) is a Celebrity from USA.

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