"Hollywood is just like high school. The popular people only like the other popular people. And the thing is, some people aren't nice - or they're nice, but only to your face, not elsewhere"
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The line “popular people only like the other popular people” isn’t about personal taste so much as risk management. In Hollywood, liking is leverage: association becomes a brand decision, and friendliness is often strategic affiliation. Seyfried’s phrasing is deliberately plain, almost teenage in its bluntness, which makes the critique feel harder to spin. No jargon, no therapy-speak. Just the social truth: status recruits status.
Her sharpest cut is the distinction between niceness and goodness. “Nice… only to your face” points to an economy of performative warmth - the smile at a premiere, the hug at an afterparty, the quiet dismissal in a casting meeting or group text. It’s a warning about how reputations are manufactured in rooms you’re not in.
Coming from an actress who’s navigated both prestige work and mainstream visibility, the subtext reads less like bitterness than boundary-setting: don’t confuse access with intimacy, and don’t mistake charm for solidarity. In a town built on scenes, she’s naming the off-camera script.
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Seyfried, Amanda. "Hollywood is just like high school. The popular people only like the other popular people. And the thing is, some people aren't nice - or they're nice, but only to your face, not elsewhere." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hollywood-is-just-like-high-school-the-popular-74443/.
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"Hollywood is just like high school. The popular people only like the other popular people. And the thing is, some people aren't nice - or they're nice, but only to your face, not elsewhere." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hollywood-is-just-like-high-school-the-popular-74443/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.
