"Honestly, I am not trying to discourage anyone from becoming an actress, but if you want to become one be prepared to face everything that comes - along with it"
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The specific intent is less career advice than inoculation. Tamblyn isn’t gatekeeping acting; she’s gatekeeping naivete. “Everything” is a purposeful vagueness that lets multiple experiences sit inside the same warning: brutal competition, financial instability, public scrutiny, the whiplash of being celebrated and disposable in the same breath. Coming from a working actress who grew up in the industry, it also reads as a subtle corrective to the way “actress” is sold as a personality upgrade rather than a job with risk and cost.
The subtext: talent isn’t the only filter. Endurance is. There’s an implied emotional labor here - the need to tolerate rejection, navigate power dynamics, and absorb projections from audiences and executives alike. In the #MeToo era especially, “everything that comes along with it” lands as a coded acknowledgment of the industry’s informal hazards, the things everyone hears about but no one puts in the brochure. Tamblyn’s warning isn’t meant to extinguish ambition; it’s meant to make it adult.
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Tamblyn, Amber. (2026, January 17). Honestly, I am not trying to discourage anyone from becoming an actress, but if you want to become one be prepared to face everything that comes - along with it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/honestly-i-am-not-trying-to-discourage-anyone-34096/
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Tamblyn, Amber. "Honestly, I am not trying to discourage anyone from becoming an actress, but if you want to become one be prepared to face everything that comes - along with it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/honestly-i-am-not-trying-to-discourage-anyone-34096/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Honestly, I am not trying to discourage anyone from becoming an actress, but if you want to become one be prepared to face everything that comes - along with it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/honestly-i-am-not-trying-to-discourage-anyone-34096/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




