"Honor means that a man is not exceptional; fame, that he is. Fame is something which must be won; honor, only something which must not be lost"
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The line “a man is not exceptional” is doing more than modesty. It frames honor as a social baseline, a kind of moral credit score you’re expected to maintain simply to participate. You don’t “achieve” honor so much as avoid behaviors that forfeit it: cowardice, betrayal, lying. Honor is fragile because it’s relational; it lives in the eyes of others and can be revoked quickly. The verb choice matters: fame must be won (an active campaign), honor must not be lost (a constant restraint).
Schopenhauer’s subtext is characteristically sour: fame depends on contingency, fashion, the crowd’s attention span. It’s often detached from inner merit and tightly bound to performance. Honor, by contrast, is conservative and almost unheroic; it’s what you have when you’re not trying to be a spectacle.
The context is a 19th-century philosopher suspicious of mass taste and social striving, writing in a Europe where reputation could determine livelihood, marriage, and status. Read now, the quote feels like a rebuke to influencer-era logic: chasing “won” attention is optional; maintaining “not lost” integrity is the real daily work.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schopenhauer, Arthur. (2026, January 17). Honor means that a man is not exceptional; fame, that he is. Fame is something which must be won; honor, only something which must not be lost. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/honor-means-that-a-man-is-not-exceptional-fame-28446/
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Schopenhauer, Arthur. "Honor means that a man is not exceptional; fame, that he is. Fame is something which must be won; honor, only something which must not be lost." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/honor-means-that-a-man-is-not-exceptional-fame-28446/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Honor means that a man is not exceptional; fame, that he is. Fame is something which must be won; honor, only something which must not be lost." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/honor-means-that-a-man-is-not-exceptional-fame-28446/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













