"Hope has a good memory, gratitude a bad one"
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The intent is not to condemn hope as delusion but to expose its function as psychological strategy. Hope survives by hoarding examples; it needs a remembered precedent to justify continuing. That "good memory" is the engine of resilience, but also a quiet indictment: we hope not because we're brave, but because we can point to a prior exception and insist it might happen again.
Gratitude's "bad memory" cuts sharper. It implies that thankfulness rarely matures into loyalty; it is quickly overwritten by entitlement, new desires, or the next grievance. In Gracian's 17th-century Spain, where patronage and favor were currency, this isn't armchair pessimism. It's field research. The subtext warns the powerful not to confuse momentary thanks for durable allegiance, and it warns the hopeful not to expect moral accounting from the world. Virtue, he implies, is less a bond than a mood.
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Gracian, Baltasar. (2026, January 14). Hope has a good memory, gratitude a bad one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hope-has-a-good-memory-gratitude-a-bad-one-140291/
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Gracian, Baltasar. "Hope has a good memory, gratitude a bad one." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hope-has-a-good-memory-gratitude-a-bad-one-140291/.
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"Hope has a good memory, gratitude a bad one." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/hope-has-a-good-memory-gratitude-a-bad-one-140291/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














