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Life & Wisdom Quote by Thomas Chandler Haliburton

"Hope is a pleasant acquaintance, but an unsafe friend"

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Hope gets demoted here from guiding light to charming liability. Haliburton’s line works because it flatters the reader’s realism while quietly indicting the kind of optimism that substitutes for action. Calling hope a "pleasant acquaintance" grants it social value: it makes life tolerable in small doses, like a witty dinner guest. Then the turn lands - "an unsafe friend" - and the metaphor hardens into a warning about dependency. Friends are who you rely on when things get serious. Hope, he implies, is unreliable precisely at the moment you want it most.

The subtext is moral and political. Haliburton wrote in a 19th-century Anglo-North Atlantic world that prized self-help, discipline, and suspicion of airy sentiment. In that climate, hope wasn’t inherently virtuous; it could look like procrastination dressed up as faith. The sentence also carries a Protestant-inflected caution: trust too much in future deliverance and you stop doing the hard, ordinary work of repair, saving, organizing, or governing yourself.

Stylistically, the aphorism is engineered for repeatability. It’s balanced, compact, and slightly cold. "Pleasant" softens the blow, making the speaker seem fair-minded rather than dour, which strengthens the authority of the rebuke. Haliburton isn’t trying to banish hope; he’s putting it in its place. Keep it around for morale, he suggests, but don’t let it drive the decisions that require clarity, planning, and consequences.

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Thomas Chandler Haliburton

Thomas Chandler Haliburton (December 17, 1796 - August 27, 1865) was a Author from Canada.

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