"How absurd men are! They never use the liberties they have, they demand those they do not have. They have freedom of thought, they demand freedom of speech"
About this Quote
In Kierkegaard’s 19th-century Denmark, “the public” was becoming a force: newspapers, talk, consensus, the early churn of mass opinion. He distrusted that leveling energy. Demanding speech rights can be noble, but it can also be a way to outsource courage: if only society were different, I’d live authentically; if only I were allowed to say it, I’d mean it. Freedom of speech becomes a moral alibi, a clean political banner that hides the messier task of thinking something through, alone, until it costs you.
The subtext is uncomfortably modern: speech is social currency; thought is solitary labor. Kierkegaard isn’t praising silence or endorsing censorship. He’s skewering the tendency to treat freedom as a product to be acquired rather than a practice to be lived. The real absurdity is demanding external permission for what you refuse to do internally.
Quote Details
| Topic | Freedom |
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| Source | Verified source: Either/Or (Part I): “Diapsalmata” (Søren Kierkegaard, 1843)
Evidence: How absurd men are! They never use the liberties they have, they demand those they do not have. They have freedom of thought, they demand freedom of speech. (Part I, “Diapsalmata” (page varies by edition/translation)). This line is widely attributed to Kierkegaard’s 1843 work Either/Or, Part I, in the opening aphorism collection titled “Diapsalmata” (written under the pseudonym “A”). A closely related (and commonly circulated) variant reads: “People demand freedom of speech as a compensation for the freedom of thought which they seldom use.” That variant appears to be a later paraphrase/condensation of the Either/Or aphorism rather than the exact wording of the same sentence. Non-primary sources disagree/muddle the exact English phrasing (“men” vs “people”; “liberties” vs “freedoms”), which depends on the translator/edition. A web source explicitly citing the location as “Diapsalmata,” Either/Or (1843, Vol. 1) supports this attribution, but I did not retrieve a scan of a specific printed edition page from a publisher/critical edition in this search session, so I cannot give a definitive first-edition page number. Supporting references: Lapham’s Quarterly lists the quote and attributes it to Kierkegaard with date 1843; other references also place it in Either/Or, vol. 1, “Diapsalmata.” Other candidates (1) Delphi Collected Works of Soren Kierkegaard (Illustrated) (Soren Kierkegaard, 2023) compilation98.0% Soren Kierkegaard Delphi Classics. The first question in the earliest and ... How absurd men are! They never use the ... |
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Kierkegaard, Søren. (2026, February 18). How absurd men are! They never use the liberties they have, they demand those they do not have. They have freedom of thought, they demand freedom of speech. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-absurd-men-are-they-never-use-the-liberties-1805/
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Kierkegaard, Søren. "How absurd men are! They never use the liberties they have, they demand those they do not have. They have freedom of thought, they demand freedom of speech." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-absurd-men-are-they-never-use-the-liberties-1805/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"How absurd men are! They never use the liberties they have, they demand those they do not have. They have freedom of thought, they demand freedom of speech." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-absurd-men-are-they-never-use-the-liberties-1805/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







