"How can anybody hate nurses? Nobody hates nurses. The only time you hate a nurse is when they're giving you an enema"
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The intent is less about nurses than about how gratitude has conditions. We adore caregivers in the abstract; we resent them in the moment they enforce reality. Beatty points to a specific kind of resentment - the childish, reflexive anger that erupts when someone helps you in a way you can’t control, especially when you’re exposed. It’s a joke about vulnerability: illness collapses adulthood into dependence, and dependence breeds petty rage.
There’s also a sly comment on service work and blame. The nurse becomes the face of an unpleasant procedure, even though the procedure is presumably for your benefit and ordered by someone else. That’s the cultural trap: we assign moral warmth to “nurse” as a role, then punish the individual for doing the job well. Beatty, a movie star associated with charm and power, picking this example amplifies the point: the only thing that can disrupt our affection for care is the reminder that care sometimes hurts, humiliates, and saves you anyway.
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| Topic | Nurse |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Beatty, Warren. (2026, January 16). How can anybody hate nurses? Nobody hates nurses. The only time you hate a nurse is when they're giving you an enema. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-anybody-hate-nurses-nobody-hates-nurses-124459/
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Beatty, Warren. "How can anybody hate nurses? Nobody hates nurses. The only time you hate a nurse is when they're giving you an enema." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-anybody-hate-nurses-nobody-hates-nurses-124459/.
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"How can anybody hate nurses? Nobody hates nurses. The only time you hate a nurse is when they're giving you an enema." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-anybody-hate-nurses-nobody-hates-nurses-124459/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







