"How can I know what I think till I see what I say?"
About this Quote
The subtext is slightly unnerving: if you can’t know what you think until you hear yourself talk, then “authenticity” is less a buried truth than a performance with consequences. Speech becomes both mirror and maker. You don’t simply report an opinion; you manufacture it, and once it’s spoken it can harden into identity, allegiance, or dogma. That makes the question ethical as much as psychological: watch what you say, because you may end up becoming it.
Context matters. Forster, writing in a Britain obsessed with manners, class codes, and what can’t be said, is attuned to the way language polices desire and belonging. His novels repeatedly show people trapped by “civilized” silence until a clumsy declaration breaks the spell. The quote argues for articulation as a tool of self-knowledge - and admits its risk. To speak is to test yourself in the world, to find out what you really think by hearing what you’re brave enough to claim.
Quote Details
| Topic | Writing |
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| Source | E. M. Forster — quotation commonly attributed to him; see Wikiquote entry for source verification. |
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Forster, E. M. (2026, January 15). How can I know what I think till I see what I say? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-i-know-what-i-think-till-i-see-what-i-say-3160/
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Forster, E. M. "How can I know what I think till I see what I say?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-i-know-what-i-think-till-i-see-what-i-say-3160/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"How can I know what I think till I see what I say?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-i-know-what-i-think-till-i-see-what-i-say-3160/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.





