"How can we live in harmony? First, we need to know we are all madly in love with the same God"
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The intent is surgical: if conflict comes from competing ultimate loyalties, then peace requires converging those loyalties. “First we need to know” signals epistemology before ethics; right living depends on right seeing. The subtext is that political order, moral agreement, even friendship are downstream from theology. We don’t merely cooperate because it’s practical. We can only truly harmonize if our loves are properly aligned.
Context matters. Aquinas writes in a 13th-century Europe where Christianity is not a private identity but a public architecture, with Aristotle newly reintroduced and being fused into Christian thought. His famous move is to treat love as a disciplined appetite: not just emotion, but a rational orientation toward the good. So “madly” doesn’t mean impulsive; it means total. God, for Aquinas, is not one preference among many but the gravitational center that makes plural life intelligible.
It works rhetorically because it smuggles authority inside intimacy. If everyone is “in love” with the same God, dissent starts to look less like disagreement and more like confusion about reality itself. Harmony becomes not negotiation, but recognition.
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"How can we live in harmony? First, we need to know we are all madly in love with the same God." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/how-can-we-live-in-harmony-first-we-need-to-know-2031/. Accessed 2 Mar. 2026.









