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Life & Wisdom Quote by Mary Astell

"How can you be content to be in the world like tulips in a garden, to make a fine show, and be good for nothing"

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Mary Astell doesn’t ask this as a gentle nudge toward self-improvement; it’s a provocation dressed as a question. The image is deliberately ornamental: tulips in a garden exist to be looked at, not to act. In one stroke she turns a socially approved feminine ideal - beauty, decorum, pleasing display - into an accusation. “Content” is the key pressure point. Astell targets not only the men who benefit from women’s enforced passivity, but the quiet bargain women are pushed to accept: safety and admiration in exchange for agency.

The line lands because it weaponizes the very language of refinement that policed women’s lives. Gardens are controlled spaces, curated by someone else’s hand. Tulips bloom on schedule, showy and brief, valued for appearance over endurance. That’s Astell’s subtext: if your life is arranged as a spectacle, your virtues become someone else’s decoration. “Good for nothing” isn’t just insult; it’s a moral claim in an era when usefulness and reason were increasingly treated as measures of human worth. She’s staking women’s equality on the Enlightenment’s own premise: rational souls shouldn’t be treated as pretty objects.

Context sharpens the edge. Writing in late 17th- and early 18th-century England, Astell is often read as an early feminist precisely because she argues, with cold clarity, that women’s “frivolity” is manufactured. If women are trained to be tulips, don’t blame the flower. Blame the garden.

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Mary Astell

Mary Astell (December 12, 1666 - May 11, 1731) was a Writer from England.

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